A True Boyfriend

Girls and young women often get deceived by their boyfriends, just because they do not understand what a true boyfriend is like. A true boyfriend will respect your body. He is considerate of your feelings. He won't take undue advantage of your weakness or circumstances. He won't trade Love and Friendship with carnal desire. He has pure feelings about you. He is driven only by Love. He'll Love you single-heartedly. He is satisfied with your presence and your true friendship. His moral integrity is impeccable.
     you can assuredly continue your relationship with such a person and even go further to choose him as your soul mate.

     And furthermore, if such a boyfriend is a God-fearing person, then you can rejoice and Thank God for having found the Modern " Tobias "-  Tobias was the son of Tobit. He was a man of integrity. His prayer: " And so I take my wife not for any lustful motive, but I do it in singleness of heart." [Tobit 8:7 ] - reflects his sound morality.
     Such a person will always remain true to your heart and will never defile your marriage bed. Most of the men fail to inculcate in them the uprightness of Tobias.
 
    In a word, a True boyfriend will always guard Friendship with a bond of Love.

Youthfulness and Sin

The age of youthfulness feels a natural inclination towards sin- and carnal desires drag the flesh into sin- because it is not guarded by the grace of 'reverence-of-God', which Joseph, son of Jacob had- For when seduced by Potiphar's wife, he found strength in the 'reverence-of-God' and he shunned her, saying: 'How could I do anything so wicked, and sin against God?’¹







1. [Genesis 39:9]

Be(a)ware of ' Amnon's Love'

This kind of Love pursues; befriends and Loves -only to betray and hurt you.This kind of deceptive love, only leads to the final moment of betrayal. The only aim of 'Amnon's love' is Carnal pleasure. It will apply every trick of deception to achieve its goal. 'Amnon's love' is a carnal love- it sees no morality; it seeks no morality.

A man who is made for love and for marriage, will not let his sexuality, mess the love relationship.
    Oh woman ! who will guard your love life and instruct your love life- if you stay away from the God of faithful love. Oh woman (in love), can you recognize a man who pursues you with 'Amnon's love'- only to disgrace you?

Only those¹ who love God and are careful to avoid any kind of defilement- God of faithful love comes to their rescue.





1. People who live according to the commandments of God, namely 'Susanna'.[ Read Daniel 13 ]

Amnon : Read 2Samuel 13 [ Amnon and Tamar ]

Boyfriend-Girlfriend

The youthful relationship is particularly meant to know each Other well- emotionally, psychologically and spiritually- how each person feels, thinks and understands. It helps to know each Others' differences- to know each Others' strengths. Boyfriend-Girlfriend type of relationship is an experimental ground to practice Trust; Purity and  Commitment in relationship. A good healthy relationship will keep  every kind of youthful immorality away and thus avoid the 'youthful mess' (Abortions; unwanted pregnancies; use of Contraceptives; break-ups etc.)
       The beauty of this relationship is- you are living precious moments of your life with someone you love and someone you long to be with. An upright  relationship will make you into a Man and Woman- pleasing to God. Furthermore, it will eventually prepare a base for stable relationship in the future. Additionally, it will teach you to love and respect one another.

      Boyfriend-Girlfriend type of relationship is not meant to explore the physical side of your being. Indulging yourself in a tainted relationship, is a form of wickedness. And wickedness, is a sin which is abhorrent to God.